Out of your sorrow ,pain, disapointment and hurt- I encourage you to praise him and talk to him -recently I have come under attack from people who "thought" they knew more than God. Pride is ugly and gossip is part of it - justifying theire mistakes with pain instead of repentance.Sad, hurtfull and according to God dangerous- search me my God should be our hearts cry - dont ever think you are greater than or know more than someone because you have been around the mountain more times- for truth is a new believer can get out quicker sometimes because they dont get all caught up in who they are they get caught up in who HE is. Take a look at Jabez he asked and God gave him all he asked for- child like faith is the greatest strength we can have- dont doubt what God will do for you because someone tells you they have the answers- and understand God loves you ! Anything that hurts you i dont care who it comes from is not God ! He will send trustworthy people to comfort you and help you find your way - not tell you to do it like them.The word is very clear on the do's and dont's - if people are "ganging up' on someone and spreading rumors they are not shareing God they are shareing satan- God said you are more than an overcomer look to him when people get mean and he will remove the 'fakes' and bring in the real thing.God loves you let him comfort you and heal what others do in 'his'name. Never give up - he loves you with all his heart.